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Ever wondered how other people see you? Ever caught someone staring at you and wondered what's gone through their mind? One thing I learnt a while back, never let someone tell you you ain't good enough or pretty enough or say things like "you think you're too nice" the last time someone said this I had to let them know I am nice. I am nice in every sense of the word. Every one is not pretty or good looking to every one but to some you're so beautiful and to yourself you should think you're beautiful on the outside and especially inside.

I personally have always been my biggest critic but I've always made it a thing to try to embrace it or never let anyone make me feel like they can use my appearance against me. How can someone use your appearance against you when you've embraced it? How can it hurt you when you're good with YOUR appearance? It can't and that means people don't have the power to hurt your feelings with it.

Think about it this way the person trying to make you feel bad about your appearance already has their own issues with theirs, honestly they do most of the time people that make people feel bad about what they look like by pointing out what may be your insecurities have so much insecurities of their own. I know people who have insecurity issues, who will hate someone to point them out but then you have someone who looks at the person and just thinks if only you knew how beautiful they actually are.

Some people are very good looking on the outside but just don't know how to act. Some people are so insecure they act so confident but you see right through their act. Life is crazy and with time, as I get older I have to get to know someone before I can say much actions speak louder than what you look like. How you're with people makes you a beautiful person. In this time and age people are so caught up with looking good that they forget to make sure they're good people.

I remember talking to one of my cousins telling him some of my situations and things I had gone through and he literally looked at me surprised and said I would of never thought you was going through anything. I laugh and smile a lot around people I always find happiness in the smallest things, if you know me you know that I laugh at pretty much anything but I'm also a cry baby. I cry at romantic films, I can cry over a movie time and time again. Ever watched a walk to remember? Lol yeah I cry at that movie each time I watch it, but see I wouldn't change it. I won't change the fact that I am soft with some things why change the things I think are good to fit the world I'm in? I work hard on the things I think are bad about me on the inside. As much as I love putting on make up I love taking it off and not wearing any for a couple of days. I feel comfortable with no make up and I mean comfortable as in I don't need make up to feel pretty.

Work on yourself and stop focusing on other people. Why appear pretty when you ain't a pretty person?
A person will fall in love with your actions not how pretty or good looking you are. People with lust over your appearance and fall in love with how you're as a person and how you are with them. Work on how you are as much as you do making yourself look good on the outside.